Hoo boy! That can be hard when He doesn’t seem to be acting the way we think He should, can’t it?
Perhaps you have an impossible situation in your life that you’re asking God to fix. You can see what needs to happen to fix the problem and maybe you’re even telling God what you think He should do, as if He doesn’t already know the end from the beginning.
Welcome to FREEDOM FRIDAY – A devotional, emotional, spiritual and sometimes hysterical series that I will be sharing on occasional Fridays, in addition to my regular Old Things New posts. Why? Because though once bound in chains Christ has set me free – FREE to live, to love, to dance, to sing, to be who God created me to be!
I love my church and I love the messages we receive from our Pastor Jeremy week-after-week. It’s almost like he can see inside my head when he’s preparing his sermons and I often find myself declaring a strong, “Amen!” to the words he speaks. Sometimes my amen may even be a little LOUD because, well, the Holy Spirit does a little dance with my spirit when a word resonates truth!
NOTE: All of the tweets in this post are quotes from our brilliant Pastor Jeremy. I couldn’t help but share them because they go so well with my message today.
A few weeks ago, Pastor Jeremy was doing a series which started with a passage out of Matthew 16 where Simon, upon whom Jesus had moments before bestowed the honor of the new name, Peter, or “ROCK,” reprimanded Jesus for warning the disciples that soon he would soon suffer, and die, and after three days rise again.
“Never Lord!”, Peter boldly declared. Matt. 16:22 NIV
Jesus’ answer to Peter? “Get away from me Satan, you are a dangerous trap to me. You are seeing things merely from a human point of view, not from God’s.” Matt. 16:23 NLT
How quickly we can go from an “all in” faith like Peter’s to fear of our circumstances or fear of what “might” happen.
Another well-known example is found in Matt. 14:29-32 where the disciples are out in a boat when a vicious storm suddenly arises. When impetuous Peter sees Jesus walking to them across the waves he jumps right out of that boat and starts wave walking to meet him. Then he recalls the ferocity of the wind and waves and begins to sink. “Help me Lord!”
Ahhh, Peter! He received a bit of an admonishment from Jesus, and then, Jesus reached out, took his hand, and brought him into the boat with him. And the wind became quiet.
How often do I, like Peter, begin with great faith in God, filled with purpose and determination to live fully for Him? Then the “stuff” of life arises, and I take my focus off of Him. I lose my vision, my courage, and sometimes even my hope. Are you at all like me?
But God. Without fail, when I turn my focus back on God and cry out to Him, He assures me that He is right here where He’s been all along. He takes my hand in His and calms my raging sea.
Lately I’ve been hanging out on U-Tube, attempting to learn how to use my very nice camera in something other than automatic mode. This week I played around with “bokeh”. I know I’m a late starter because every blogger worth his or her salt knows how to create good bokeh.
For those of you who have no idea what I’m talking about, bokeh is defined as, “The aesthetic quality of the blur produced in the out-of-focus parts of an image produced by a lens.” Thank you Wikipedia.
This picture right here? This is an example of bokeh. The flower is the focal point and all that is happening around it is a blur.
The same is true with God. When He is at the center of my focus, I am at peace. That makes for a beautiful picture doesn’t it? When I’m not focused on God, I start seeing all the things happening around me that I can’t control. I look at outward circumstances from my own limited understanding and I become fearful, rather than trusting God. How quickly that can become a terrible downward spiral.
Fear feeds on itself, and like a lit match dropped in a puddle of gasoline, our faith goes up in flames. Share on X
Fear can be fed, but so also can faith, even faith as small as a mustard seed. It is fed when we let our circumstances become a blur and focus our eyes back on Jesus. Just like Pastor Jeremy says:
Prayer: Lord Jesus, we are such flighty people. One moment declaring that You are Omnipotent and Sovereign and Wonderful and Good, and the next moment cowering under the covers in fear. Please Lord, forgive us our lack of faith and thank you that, in spite of ourselves and in spite of our circumstances, you remain faithful to us. I ask that You help us not to rely on how big our faith is, but on how big You are. Lord, please bring my friends little reminders throughout the day of Your presence beside them so that they will remember to keep their focus on you. Thank you for loving us so very much. Amen
Those who leave everything in God's hands will eventually see God's hand in everything. Share on X
Thank you, dear friends for hearing what the Lord laid on my heart today.
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Cheryl Licht says
Love the bokeh illustration Patti! That’s good!
Patti says
Thank you sweet friend 😉
Terri says
Gerber Daisies … One of my FAVS!!! What an awesome post… and so true….. Thank you for the encouraging words…
Patti says
My pleasure Terri. Thank YOU!
Sandra @ Maison De Jardin says
Patti: Your lovely post was a beautiful reminder to me of God’s presence. Thank you.
Patti says
That blesses me Sandra. Thank YOU!
Pam says
It’s so nice to see such ones as yourself who read the Bible and discuss it with others as I do too. Usually at our Meetings and when I go door to door.
Where would we be if Jehovah didn’t give us his ransom son? As Matthew 20:28 brings out, Just as the Son of Man came, not to be ministered too, but to minister and to give his life as a ransom in exchange for many.
If it wasn’t for Jehovah giving us his son as it says in John 3:16 says, For God loved the world so much that he gave his only-begotten Son so that everyone exercising faith in him might not be destroyed but have everlasting life.
How beautiful and loving our God is!!
Have a beautiful day!!
Pam
Patti says
Thank you Pam. We serve a good, good Savior.
Marlene Stephenson says
Thanks, sometimes its good to be reminded of just how awesome God is. He wants good things for us and when we surrender to his will, WOW.
Patti says
You are spot on Marlene. It is in surrender that the battle is won and to the victor go the spoils of war! How exciting to know we have God on our side.
Janet Parker says
Thank you for the illustration of “bokeh.” A big Amen for your encouraging words and also Amen for Pastor Jeremy.
Patti says
Thank you Janet. I was so excited to learn bokeh! Now if I could only learn to take pictures inside my house in manual. THAT is no so easy 🙁
Lisa notes... says
Great analogy with our life and bokeh, Patti. Too often we focus on the wrong things, when a little perspective might right the boat. Thanks for sharing (and I need a refresher course on my camera!). 😉
Patti says
Thank you Lisa. I would love to take pictures like a pro but there are only so many things one can study at a time. A little bokeh goes a long way toward better photos though!
Michele Morin says
I’ll probably never master bokeh in the world of photography (especially since I didn’t know it existed until I read about it here!), but am trusting for His grace to find focus in real life and in the writing life we both love.
Lesley says
It is easy to swing from being filled with faith to allowing the doubts and the fear to take over. I like the link you make about our focus being on God and everything else blurring into the background compared to him. Visiting from Porch Stories.
Patti says
It really is easy to swing from faith to fear, and I’ve certainly not mastered my focusing powers as of yet! It takes some bit of work on our part doesn’t it? Thank you for the visit Lesley. I hope you’ll come again.
debbieputman says
Fear can be fed, but so can faith. Yes, yes, yes.
Patti says
It takes some work on our part, but YES, we can choose which one to feed.
hopeful50 says
Fabulous quotes! And the Bokeh – I want Jesus to be the Main Thing and everything else can Bokeh out!!!
Patti says
Bokeh out!!!
CrystalStorms.me says
I love the parallel of bokeh with a focus on God, Patti! Beautiful reminder that God is right there with us, holding our hand in His.
Patti says
Yes Crystal. We sometimes forget that but He is always by our side.
Connie from Master's Hand Collection says
Hi Patti, Thanks for the reminder to keep Jesus the focus. Love your post and your pictures!
Patti says
Thank you Connie. I have to remind myself every single day! Blessings 🙂
richellaparham says
Love this! I can certainly use these reminders. And your bokeh photos are lovely! 🙂
Patti says
Thank you sweet friend.